Suggestions for Parents

1. Talk to your son or daughter about the legal use of alcohol and the need for responsible decision making; emphasize that "competitive" drinking, drinking as a hazing ritual, and drinking games can result in alcohol poisoning, and can kill even the most healthy young adult. Discuss any family history of chemical dependency.
2. Explain clearly to your son or daughter that there is a balance between study time and social time, that he/she will need to find the balance that will meet the academic expectations you all agree on. Discuss the legal consequences of having a fake I.D.
3. Talk to your son or daughter about the role of alcohol and how alcohol abuse can affect achieving his or her goals. Discuss the reality that peer pressure can occur about drinking choices.
4. Keep the lines of communication open - call and e-mail often. Communicate as friends and as parents.
5. Visit the campus and network with other families as well as other college officials. Encourage your son or daughter to become involved in campus life by joining organizations or working on projects of interest.
6. Encourage your son or daughter to provide written authorization to the college to grant permission for the release of health and safety information to you.